William James "Bill" Farnham, 82, affectionately known as "Grumpy Grandpa," was a man who perfectly balanced seriousness with humor and showed his love in steady, unmistakable ways. He passed away on Monday, February 16, 2026, surrounded by his family and loved ones.
William enjoyed the simple things that brought people together -- fishing, going to auctions, and family parties. Whether he was casting a line, bidding on a good find, or sitting among family with his familiar expressions and quiet commentary, those moments were where his personality truly shined. His humor often came when you least expected it, and those who knew him best understood that beneath the gruff exterior was a deeply loving man.
Family meant everything to William. He was proud of his role as a father, grandfather, and great-grandfather and brother, wearing the title of "Grumpy Grandpa" with a mix of toughness, wit, and unwavering love. His presence was strong, his loyalty unmatched, and his influence will live on through the generations of family he helped shape.
William was employed for 28 years at the New York State Department of Transportation as a crane operator.
He is survived by his sons, James (Autumn) and Theodore (Mary) Farnham and his daughter, Kathy (Todd) Brisky, all of Bemus Point; his beloved grandchildren, Jessica, Alexandra Sinatra, Micheal Peterson, Jordan (Kayla), Andrew (Dr. Makenzie), Riley Farnham, Justin, Nicholas and Adam Brisky; great-grandchildren, Aaidyn Rounds, Miller Farnham and Charlie Farnham; his brothers, Tim (Laura), Kenny, Paul (Bev) and John Farnham; his sisters, Judy Palmer, Mary (Al) Smith and Patty (Ron) Wetzel; and many other family members and friends. William was preceded in death by his wife of 56 years, Arlene; son, Ricky; parents, William and Geraldine Farnham; brother, Syd; and sister, Lynda.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, March 14 from 1:00-4:00 PM at the Maple Springs Fire Department.
In lieu of flowers, donations in William's name may be made to the Bemus Point Fire Department, PO Box 306, Bemus Point, NY 14712; or the Maple Springs Fire Department, PO Box 100, Bemus Point, NY 14712.
